•Being never or previously married relates to innate immunity, especially in males.•Unmarried older adults have higher plasma levels of amyloid-β40 and total tau.•Single older males have higher levels of all plasma neurodegeneration markers.•Immunity did not mediate the link between social health and global cognition.•Marital status and immunity interact to affect total brain volume in older age. The immune system has been proposed to play a role in the link between social health and all-cause dementia risk. We explored cross-sectional and longitudinal associations between social health, immune system balance and plasma neurodegeneration markers in community-dwelling older adults, and explored whether the balance between innate and adaptive immunity mediates associations between social health and both cognition and total brain volume. Social health markers (social support, marital status, loneliness) were measured in the Rotterdam Study between 2002–2008. Immune system cell counts and balance were assessed repeatedly from 2002 to 2016 using white blood-cell-based indices and individual counts (granulocyte-to-lymphocyte ratio (GLR), platelet-to-lymphocyte ratio (PLR), and systemic immune-inflammation index (SII)). Plasma neurodegeneration biomarkers (amyloid-β40, amyloid-β42, total tau and neurofilament light chain) were measured once from blood samples collected between 2002–2008. Global cognitive function and total brain volume (MRI) were measured at the follow-up visit between 2009–2014. We used linear mixed models to study longitudinal associations and performed causal mediation analyses. In 8374 adults (mean age 65.7, 57 % female), never married participants (n = 394) had higher GLR, PLR and SII compared to married peers at baseline and during follow-up, indicating imbalance towards innate immunity. Being never married was associated with higher plasma amyloid-β40, and being widowed or divorced with higher plasma total tau levels at baseline. Widowed or divorced males, but not females, had higher GLR, PLR and SII at baseline. Higher social support was associated with lower PLR in females, but higher PLR in males. Loneliness was not associated with any of the immune system balance ratios. Never married males had higher levels of all plasma neurodegeneration markers at baseline. Immune system balance did not mediate associations between social health and cognition or total brain volume, but does interact with marital status. This study indicates that marital status is associated with blood-based immune system markers toward innate immunity and higher levels of plasma neurodegeneration markers. This is particularly evident for never married or previously married male older adults compared to married or female peers.