Avtorica predstavi raziskavo, ki jo je opravila v izobraževanju starih starsev za prepoznavanje in razumevanje potreb in custev vnukov. Avtorica trdi, da custveni zarisi iz otrostva vplivajo na ...življenjski scenarij osebe in na vzpostavljanje ali nezmožnost vzpostavljanja funkcionalnih vezi v skupnosti. Njeno spoznanje je, da je izobraževanje za prepoznavanje otrokovih potreb bistvenega pomena. Otrokove potrebe in custva so tako temeljna vsebina v izobraževanju starih starsev. Ti potrebujejo kognitivna spoznanja pa tudi doživljajsko izkustveno ucenje, ki jih lahko spremeni v odnosu do vnukov. Taksno ucenje je mogoce v izobraževalnih oblikah, ki vzpodbujajo vzajemno ucenje.
Noting the increasing numbers of grandparents who have taken on the role of parenting their grandchildren, short- or long-term, this manual addresses the themes and problems that are the most central ...to grandparents who are raising grandchildren, including drastic life changes, parenting issues, frustration, and legal problems. The book is divided into three sections. Section 1, "When the Second Shift Arrives," covers the personal and social aspects of raising grandchildren: the changes, the feelings, and the problems of adult children, grandchildren, and family in general in these circumstances. The section starts with an overview of the recent rise in grandparents as parents and looks at some of the myths about the phenomenon. Section 2, "Through the Red Tape, " addresses the bureaucratic part of raising grandchildren, the legal issues, and the availability of government assistance and special education. Section 3, "Strength in Numbers," focuses on the larger community of grandparents as parents and provides information on finding and starting support groups as well as on the political aspects of the grandparent movement. The appendices include a list of resources for grandparents and relative caregivers, conversation topics that should be addressed by grandparents and support groups, and finally information on specific grandparents whose stories are mentioned in the book. Contains 136 references. (AA)
Bila sem prva Zalesnikova vnukinja. Poimenovanja za mojo mamo in staro mamo so za mano prevzeli tudi ostali vnuki in vnukinje, ki so za mano privekali na svet. Tako je stara mama postala »mami«, moja ...mama pa »mamči«. In tako nasmejano smo se spomladi pred sedeminpetdesetimi leti postavile pod cvetočo jablano tri generacije Zalesnikovih žensk: mami, mamči in moja majcenost.Na fotografiji od leve: »mami« Genovefa (Efka) Sevčnikar, roj. Ocepek, »mamči« Silva Beričnik, roj. Sevčnikar in v njenem naročju Stanka Ledinek, roj. BeričnikPrispevala: Stanka Ledinek, roj. Beričnik
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