The emotional toll and financial cost of end-of-life care can be high. Existing literature suggests that medical providers often choose to forego many aggressive interventions and life-prolonging therapies for themselves. To further investigate this phenomenon, we compared how providers make medical decisions for themselves versus for relatives and unrelated patients. Between 2016 and 2019, anonymous surveys were emailed to physicians (attendings, fellows, and residents), nurse practitioners, physician assistances, and nurses at two multifacility tertiary medical centers. Participants were asked to decide how likely they would offer a tracheostomy and feeding gastrostomy to a hypothetical patient with a devastating neurological injury and an uncertain prognosis. Participants were then asked to reconsider their decision if the patient was their own family member or if they themselves were the patient. The Kruskal–Wallis H, Mann–Whitney U, and Tukey tests were used to compare quantitative data. Statistical significance was set at P < 0.05. Seven hundred seventy-three surveys were completed with a 10% response rate at both institutions. Regardless of professional identity, age, or gender, providers were significantly more likely to recommend a tracheostomy and feeding gastrostomy to an unrelated patient than for themselves. Professional identity and age of the respondent did influence recommendations made to a family member. We demonstrate that medical practitioners make different end-of-life care decisions for themselves compared with others. It is worth investigating further why there is such a discrepancy between what medical providers choose for themselves compared with what they recommend for others.