Let D be a Noetherian infinite integral domain, denote by M2(D) and by sl2(D) the 2×2 matrix algebra and the Lie algebra of the traceless matrices in M2(D), respectively. In this paper we study the weak polynomial identities for the natural grading by the cyclic group Z2 of order 2 on M2(D) and on sl2(D). We describe a finite basis of the graded polynomial identities for the pair (M2(D),sl2(D)). Moreover we prove that the ideal of the graded identities for this pair satisfies the Specht property, that is every ideal of graded identities of pairs (associative algebra, Lie algebra), satisfying the graded identities for (M2(D),sl2(D)), is finitely generated. The polynomial identities for M2(D) are known if D is any field of characteristic different from 2. The identities for the Lie algebra sl2(D) are known when D is an infinite field. The identities for the pair we consider were first described by Razmyslov when D is a field of characteristic 0, and afterwards by the second author when D is an infinite field. The graded identities for the pair (M2(D),gl2(D)) were also described, by Krasilnikov and the second author. In order to obtain these results we use certain graded analogues of the generic matrices, and also techniques developed by G. Higman concerning partially well ordered sets.